75renegade
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Just a few thoughts about trying vs. doing...
Some folks seem to indicate that they "keep on trying" but they do not often achieve the levels of success they desire and they aren't sure why.
Others seem to "just do it" with little or no thought about the concept of trying.
TRYING: I would submit this idea that the ones who "try" approach their lives from the perspective and vantage point of doubt.
Doubt is a leading indicator of fear...perhaps the fear of failure.
The irony for me in all of this is the cycle that is created for the one's who fear what may or may not happen "if"...
(I believe we all choose the fears we hold inside)
Fear results in doubt which produces a self-defeating outlook, which further results in the failure that is feared.
On the converse, I am suggesting that the oposite is also equally true and that every person has the potential to realize and benefit from this universal truth.
DOING: The doer does not let trying get in the way of persuing or fulfilling his/her mission.
The doer acknowledges the possiblity of what most refer to as failure, but not in the same way as those who merely try.
For the doer, so called failure is actually received as success, because the experience teaches and reveals one more way in which not to spend energy that may otherwise be conserved for use in the next attempt, in order to prepel the doer closer toward his/her mission.
I submit that an attitude of doing is typically constituted by a fearless perspective, which prevents doubts that would rob the doer of potential successes.
To the doer, merely trying is to admit defeat before he/she ever starts.
The doer spends his/her days making thing happen while the try-ers spend their days observing the contrast and wishing they could realize levels of success in their own lives, like the doers do.
A doer with a maturing perspective and a kind spirit will keep his/her heart open to the try-er and may offer suggestions, when the opportunity affords that could help the try-er gain a more productive perspective so that success may be more possible for the try-er.
A wise doer also acknowledges that those who merely try, must choose to open their minds and embrace the same truth that the doer has discovered, in order to realize the benefits.
A doer is not better than a try-er...both are equal, however the lives of the doer and the try-er are vastly different in light of the perspectives they choose to hold...or not to hold.
On that note, I believe I will have a double Dewar's on the rocks now!!
Thoughts?
Some folks seem to indicate that they "keep on trying" but they do not often achieve the levels of success they desire and they aren't sure why.
Others seem to "just do it" with little or no thought about the concept of trying.
TRYING: I would submit this idea that the ones who "try" approach their lives from the perspective and vantage point of doubt.
Doubt is a leading indicator of fear...perhaps the fear of failure.
The irony for me in all of this is the cycle that is created for the one's who fear what may or may not happen "if"...
(I believe we all choose the fears we hold inside)
Fear results in doubt which produces a self-defeating outlook, which further results in the failure that is feared.
On the converse, I am suggesting that the oposite is also equally true and that every person has the potential to realize and benefit from this universal truth.
DOING: The doer does not let trying get in the way of persuing or fulfilling his/her mission.
The doer acknowledges the possiblity of what most refer to as failure, but not in the same way as those who merely try.
For the doer, so called failure is actually received as success, because the experience teaches and reveals one more way in which not to spend energy that may otherwise be conserved for use in the next attempt, in order to prepel the doer closer toward his/her mission.
I submit that an attitude of doing is typically constituted by a fearless perspective, which prevents doubts that would rob the doer of potential successes.
To the doer, merely trying is to admit defeat before he/she ever starts.
The doer spends his/her days making thing happen while the try-ers spend their days observing the contrast and wishing they could realize levels of success in their own lives, like the doers do.
A doer with a maturing perspective and a kind spirit will keep his/her heart open to the try-er and may offer suggestions, when the opportunity affords that could help the try-er gain a more productive perspective so that success may be more possible for the try-er.
A wise doer also acknowledges that those who merely try, must choose to open their minds and embrace the same truth that the doer has discovered, in order to realize the benefits.
A doer is not better than a try-er...both are equal, however the lives of the doer and the try-er are vastly different in light of the perspectives they choose to hold...or not to hold.
On that note, I believe I will have a double Dewar's on the rocks now!!
Thoughts?