What does it mean...
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Aunty Em
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Gato_Solo said:Hmmm...Hey, PT...That's what we've been missing here. A Boy-toy. We've got the house-boy (me), the cabana-boy(you), and the pool-boy (), but we don't have the boy-toy. Should we put out a want-ad?
Hmmm... Now what should I be... Dominatrix? Anyone into rubber and have a shoe fetish?
Aunty Em
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Nixy said:If anything does happen with this guy I have got to remember to block this site from his puter first chance i get so he does not accidentally stumble upon it!
Wouldn't want him thinking I'm weird like you guys!
Why I think you're the most sane bunch of people I've ever met. May God strike me down if I'm lying!
Ow, that hurt!
AlladinSane
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He has all the symptons. My bet ís that's more than sex. I don't see it as a 19 y/o thing. If a girls I'm interested in wants to do something she likes, hell I do for her.
For once that's good advice. When young we spend a lot of time and opportunities trying to figure out expectations. Being with a person you like and having fun can be so exciting as sex, if you let yourself enjoy it. Er.. do I speak like a 50 year old?
Ardsgaine
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He's an engineering major?
Okay, well when I was 19, I was an engineering major too, so let's just assume he's like I was when I was at that age. This is what's up:
He's really wanting to go out with you. He's very attracted to you. If he were 'cool' he would've already put the bum rush on you, but he doesn't have the self-confidence. You may have to nudge him along and give him very clear signals that you're interested. Next time he says something about going out to play pool, tell him what time he should pick you up.
He may or may not be 'in love' with you. Chances are, he's going to hold back a little until he feels safe. He feels something for you, though, or he wouldn't be interested. He's not investing all this time and working himself up to asking you out just for a one-night stand.
And oh yeah. Be gentle with him... it's his first time.
Okay, well when I was 19, I was an engineering major too, so let's just assume he's like I was when I was at that age. This is what's up:
He's really wanting to go out with you. He's very attracted to you. If he were 'cool' he would've already put the bum rush on you, but he doesn't have the self-confidence. You may have to nudge him along and give him very clear signals that you're interested. Next time he says something about going out to play pool, tell him what time he should pick you up.
He may or may not be 'in love' with you. Chances are, he's going to hold back a little until he feels safe. He feels something for you, though, or he wouldn't be interested. He's not investing all this time and working himself up to asking you out just for a one-night stand.
And oh yeah. Be gentle with him... it's his first time.
AlladinSane
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I know. I was saying his interest probably is not just sexual, IMO.Nixy said:Alladinsine: We are not having sex......
Oh, ok. Thank You 
Ards: I thanx for the advice, I have a feeling I am going to do a bit more than that though. I am at the point now where I can't sleep. I REALLY want to get to know him better. *sigh* Actually, your description sounds just like him though. He's a very nice guy who has friends but he's not one of the "cool guys" who everyone knows their name. Also, for some reason I get the strangest feeling that he is a virgin. That is SO weird how you guessed that stuff.
Ards: I thanx for the advice, I have a feeling I am going to do a bit more than that though. I am at the point now where I can't sleep. I REALLY want to get to know him better. *sigh* Actually, your description sounds just like him though. He's a very nice guy who has friends but he's not one of the "cool guys" who everyone knows their name. Also, for some reason I get the strangest feeling that he is a virgin. That is SO weird how you guessed that stuff.
