define THIS

[Professur]

So we agree then. Women are trouble.


*drops belly down*

 

[freako104]

like men are arent trouble prof

 

[Q]

You're a masochist....arencha?

Let's just say some women are touble. One of the places I do work for has all women employees. I call 'em the shrew crew. They're just dreadful.

 

[freako104]

You're a masochist....arencha?

if he was would he have ducked??

 

[Q]

He didn't duck. I did.

 

[nalani]

*decides to stick to my promise of not bitchslapping Prof*

It's not that he's not "good enough" .. it's that, after a week, he wanted a definition ... I can't do that. I like him - what I know of him - but not enough to start defining anything.

He called last night and apologized for getting so serious so quickly. He said he liked me and wanted to see where it was going. I just said that he only likes what he knows of me - and that's not a bad thing - but this "this" isn't really a "this" .. yet. So, I told him that we could hang out and have fun - and if that's not good enough for him, I understand ... but that's all I can give him.

Geez ... talk about gender role reversals!

 

[PT]

Men are becoming pussies. Sad but true.

 

[Q]

I don't like the pussy kind. I chew them up and spit 'em out. Kirk is a pain in the ass sometimes, but he's a challange at least.

 

[PT]

They are, ever since this "Get in touch with your inner child" and "Find your feminine side" Bullshit started, there are men out there giving the rest of us a really bad name. It's one thing to be sensitive, another to be a pussy.

 

[nalani]

I don't like the pussy kind. I chew them up and spit 'em out.

*can't get the vision ... out of my head*


perhaps I'm not appreciating this as much as I would had I a Y chromosome.

 

[Q]

perhaps that was a bad combination of words

the chew them up part was figurative, of course

 

[kuulani]

What really scares me is it's the guy who's trying to become intimate so early in the relationship. This just ain't normal....nosirebob.

That's what I was thinking when you first told me about it. I mean, I only found out about him a week ago, and now he wants to define THIS?!?! Whoa.

I don't know if you want me to say this aloud, but he DID call you a whole lotta times the day after your first date, and didn't you two get together the next night too? Seems to me he really, really, really likes you. I don't know this person, so I can't tell you if that's cute or if that's scary

But you did say he was a nice guy, so maybe you should give him the benefit of the doubt. And you always have Puaala to scare him off if it comes to that

 

[Gato_Solo]

What really scares me is it's the guy who's trying to become intimate so early in the relationship. This just ain't normal....nosirebob.

That's what I was thinking when you first told me about it. I mean, I only found out about him a week ago, and now he wants to define THIS?!?! Whoa.

I don't know if you want me to say this aloud, but he DID call you a whole lotta times the day after your first date, and didn't you two get together the next night too? Seems to me he really, really, really likes you. I don't know this person, so I can't tell you if that's cute or if that's scary

But you did say he was a nice guy, so maybe you should give him the benefit of the doubt. And you always have Puaala to scare him off if it comes to that

I just think he's bad with relationships. Perhaps he's never had a good one, and is afraid that you'll tear his heart apart again, Na. Either that, or he's a complete nut-job.

 

[kuulani]

I don't like the pussy kind. I chew them up and spit 'em out.

*can't get the vision ... out of my head*


perhaps I'm not appreciating this as much as I would had I a Y chromosome.

OMG! That is too fricken funny!!

 

[Q]

Ok, ok.... so it was a simply hideous choice of words

 

[Squiggy]

I'll pretend I never saw that, Q....

 

[Leslie]

I just can't pretend I never saw it

ROFL way too funny!

 

[75renegade]

Advice?

I have none worthy, but my rule of thumb is to go on doin' what it is ya do............

..............if the joker wants to follow ya down yer own path, his motives will be revealed, for better or for worse.

Seems, at a glance, that yer curious, an' that ya wonder whether he could truely be worthy of the kinda love yer capable of, an' of that which yer youngins are eager to give. Nothin' wrong with that, by me.

Yer caution is God-given.

Yield to it, as ya are, an' continue to love on yer little ones as ya do.

When the time IS right for you an' yer family ya won't even have a question. You'll jus' know that it is.

 

[nalani]

I don't know if you want me to say this aloud, but he DID call you a whole lotta times the day after your first date, and didn't you two get together the next night too? Seems to me he really, really, really likes you. I don't know this person, so I can't tell you if that's cute or if that's scary

But you did say he was a nice guy, so maybe you should give him the benefit of the doubt. And you always have Puaala to scare him off if it comes to that

yeah - he called me a bunch of times on Saturday - we didn't go out that night though ... I stayed home and did homework ... but we went out on Sunday .. and that was really nice. He was real apologetic too ... I guess I'm just not used to a guy who wants to know where this is going .. and he is definitely not used to a girl who doesn't care where it's going

and you're right - Pua'ala is just a phone call away

 

[nalani]

75 ... you totally ROCK! ... my Scots-Irish DNA must have been kicking in cause I totally understood everything you wrote.