Romance - One for the guys!!!

[Leslie]

for me romance isn't candles and wine and being pretentious...it's a day to day sweetness and kindness that will get me every time.

 

[paul_valaru]

for me romance isn't candles and wine and being pretentious...it's a day to day sweetness and kindness that will get me every time.

double amen, it's the little things

 

[paul_valaru]

Romance is:


listening to music, just the 2 of you alone, and you just go get her, and start dancing.

 

[Mirlyn]

Romance?....I know nothing of this ...romance

Oh, wait....Is that like when you're working under the car and you ask her to hand you a long, half inch drive extension and a swivel, 12 point, 11/16 socket....and she gets it right?

That is exactly what I was going to say.

Romance? Hmm...the details depend on the girl (sorry guys/gals, I hate the sappy, canned, wine-based scenarios ripped straight from Days of Our Lives ), but it'd probably involve days of hiking in the mountains, sleeping by the creeks, and every night watching the stars.

 

[Gonz]

This guy I can respect

 

[G.I.Jane]

That is exactly what I was going to say.

Romance? Hmm...the details depend on the girl (sorry guys/gals, I hate the sappy, canned, wine-based scenarios ripped straight from Days of Our Lives ), but it'd probably involve days of hiking in the mountains, sleeping by the creeks, and every night watching the stars.

I know this is for the guys... but I think he's on the right track. Plus the day to day little things; like the smiles and hugs that pass between 2 people when life gets hectic.

 

[tonksy]

mirlyn is exactly right! if he were going to romance a girl...that is what he should do. whatever you feel, you know? not prepackaged drivel...i hate a phony effort....you know?

 

[Mirlyn]

mirlyn is exactly right! if he were going to romance a girl...that is what he should do. whatever you feel, you know? not prepackaged drivel...i hate a phony effort....you know?

Well, the only problem is the mountains are a good 7-8 hours from here. Might have to get a hotel room for the first night. Then we could fuck. How's THAT for romance?

 

[tonksy]

Well, the only problem is the mountains are a good 7-8 hours from here. Might have to get a hotel room for the first night. Then we could fuck. How's THAT for romance?

damn mirlyn...thats just logical thought.

 

[IDLEchild]

A pill of ecstasy for the gal and couple of vodka shots for the man...watch magic happen....add in whips and chains and you got a story to tell your grandkids.

 

[Mare]

pulls up chair and leans back to wait.... and wait.... and wait....

Move over-bringing the candy-see you already got the popcorn..this should be good

 

[Mare]

Wait no more...wait no more.


ahem...I'm born romantic and raised a gentleman. I'm assuming that you'd wnat a full date...let's say...4 hours (first or middle-date) - romance piled high and deep.

A quiet meal (cooked by yours truly) at home. (Pasta primavera, hot bread, whipped butter, Dessert)
A bottle of dry white wine, chilled
Vivaldi or Tcaichovsky in the background
Subdued lighting (no candles...I hate the glare from the centre-point)
Phones off, kid babysat, cats gagged and bound
After the meal, a steaming bath for two. (Wine, sliced cheese, black olives, pimiento rings) on the side.
A massage with scented oils
Making love all night

enough? or shall I describe the state of the bedroom before and after said lovemaking and meriiment

Such a romancer-karma karma karma for Bish.

 

[SexyBoo]

Wow Bish.... If only more men thought like you.

 

[BeardofPants]

for me romance isn't candles and wine and being pretentious...it's a day to day sweetness and kindness that will get me every time.

Definately! One of the nicest things the BF did for me was make up a playing list of classical music in iTunes for me. I came home from work, and saw "Anna's Playing List"... Awww... (guess ya kinda have to be me to understand though...)

 

[IDLEchild]

Give him her a divorce....the most romantic and thoughtful thing one can do for their significant other.

 

[MrBishop]

That is exactly what I was going to say.

Romance? Hmm...the details depend on the girl (sorry guys/gals, I hate the sappy, canned, wine-based scenarios ripped straight from Days of Our Lives ), but it'd probably involve days of hiking in the mountains, sleeping by the creeks, and every night watching the stars.

Ah yes...rough romance. We spent 10 days in Algonquin Park, canoe-camping with portages. The first clear night, I walked her down to the canoe with the pretence that something was wrong with it. Held the flashlight down on the ground. When we got to the canoe, she said "What did you want me to see?"

I turned off the flashlight, gently pushed her chin upwards with a finger and watched as the awe of seeing so many stars adn the milky way accross the night sky. Watched that for about 20 mins, not saying a word...I took her hand in mine, walked her back to the tent and 40 weeks later...I'm a poppa. (Yes, we did the math backwards and that was the night).

Who needs Viagra when you have this?

 

[rrfield]

Laying in bed naked for an entire Sunday, watching football, having sex during comercials.

rrfield

 

[AlladinSane]

Spend the afternoon on a shopping dinner place, listening to live music, seeing old pictures, talking about life and dreams, times laying her head on my shoulder, times sharing soft kisses. That was my Sunday and I loved. I guess my standards aren't that high.

 

[tonksy]

Laying in bed naked for an entire Sunday, watching football, having sex during comercials.

rrfield

thats what i'm talking about!...but don't forget half-time!

 

[PT]

thats what i'm talking about!...but don't forget half-time!

Oh man. Now that is perfection.