ClarabellaUK
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Just need to share this... get it off my chest so to speak...
I believe my new fella wants to break up with me.... I'm losing him and I'm going out of my mind!
I heard nothing from him since 12pm yesterday and he seemed fine on the phone... we were going to meet today do something together... but he texts me today to say that yesterday whilst washing his car his ex who he hasn't seen since they split (over a year ago)called round. "nothing happened but he now doesn't think he's over her" He still has feelings for her... that he feels a bastard as "both his heart and head don't belong to me" He "honestly thought he was over her"
He obviously wants to get back with her.
I don't know what to do. I've tried to call once but he didn't answer. I texted that we need to talk. And its changed nothing for me. My feelings haven't changed. And I'm just sitting it out... the balls in his court.
I just think its pretty coincidental how the weekend after the weekend I'm seen out with him in his local, drinking with mutual friends, she comes out of the woodwork. I know often its a case of "don't know what you've got til its gone" and the prospect of him no longer being single may have spurred her into action but WHAT A BITCH! How awful?
He claims "nothing happened" but describes it as "I had a proper head battering day and kind of went on a drinking bender after all the shit happened" Shit? Strange choice of words to describe a sudden unprovoked re emergence of love!!!! She obviously was begging him!
I don't understand... he's written me countless letters... said he's never felt the way he feels about me before... told me he loves me!... cheekily asked me on MSN how long in terms of time would I consider it appropriate before I'd consider, moving in with a boyfriend, getting engaged and getting married!!!!!!! Sent me flowers!
I thought he was the one... I've never felt like I do about my bloke ever before!!!!! I've told him everything!!!!EVERYTHING!
Perhaps this was a big ploy for sex... but I can't see it.
The man needs an Oscar for his performance as the devoted BF!!!! He was sitting in my house eating my lasagne on Tuesday! I was round at his getting a full body massage and copious cuddles on Thursday!!!!!!
I'm so confused.
I feel so desperate... I feel so empty and hurt... like I've been kicked in the stomach. Can't stop crying. Cried so much I've been sick.
Nothing to do except wait and see.
I believe my new fella wants to break up with me.... I'm losing him and I'm going out of my mind!
I heard nothing from him since 12pm yesterday and he seemed fine on the phone... we were going to meet today do something together... but he texts me today to say that yesterday whilst washing his car his ex who he hasn't seen since they split (over a year ago)called round. "nothing happened but he now doesn't think he's over her" He still has feelings for her... that he feels a bastard as "both his heart and head don't belong to me" He "honestly thought he was over her"
He obviously wants to get back with her.
I don't know what to do. I've tried to call once but he didn't answer. I texted that we need to talk. And its changed nothing for me. My feelings haven't changed. And I'm just sitting it out... the balls in his court.
I just think its pretty coincidental how the weekend after the weekend I'm seen out with him in his local, drinking with mutual friends, she comes out of the woodwork. I know often its a case of "don't know what you've got til its gone" and the prospect of him no longer being single may have spurred her into action but WHAT A BITCH! How awful?
He claims "nothing happened" but describes it as "I had a proper head battering day and kind of went on a drinking bender after all the shit happened" Shit? Strange choice of words to describe a sudden unprovoked re emergence of love!!!! She obviously was begging him!
I don't understand... he's written me countless letters... said he's never felt the way he feels about me before... told me he loves me!... cheekily asked me on MSN how long in terms of time would I consider it appropriate before I'd consider, moving in with a boyfriend, getting engaged and getting married!!!!!!! Sent me flowers!
I thought he was the one... I've never felt like I do about my bloke ever before!!!!! I've told him everything!!!!EVERYTHING!
Perhaps this was a big ploy for sex... but I can't see it.
The man needs an Oscar for his performance as the devoted BF!!!! He was sitting in my house eating my lasagne on Tuesday! I was round at his getting a full body massage and copious cuddles on Thursday!!!!!!
I'm so confused.
I feel so desperate... I feel so empty and hurt... like I've been kicked in the stomach. Can't stop crying. Cried so much I've been sick.
Nothing to do except wait and see.
Not!
How's the family!?