MrBishop
Well-Known Member
Imagine this: A Mother of triplets "Temporarily loses it" and flings one of her 3 month old triplets into a bassinett so hard that it suffers a fractured skull and dies. She waits for several hours before calling 9-1-1 for help after the fact.
Now...imagine if it was the father that did the exact same actions.
All things being equal under the law..the parent in question would go to jail for a VERY long time and certainly not get to see his/her remaining children again.
Unfortunately, the law doesn't work that way. She had, after all, the Mother of all defenses.
Father of a child: Potential life in prison and loss of custody of all children
Mother of a child: 18 months slap on the wrist, nightly curfew and gets all remaining children back.

Now...imagine if it was the father that did the exact same actions.
All things being equal under the law..the parent in question would go to jail for a VERY long time and certainly not get to see his/her remaining children again.
Unfortunately, the law doesn't work that way. She had, after all, the Mother of all defenses.
LinkWINNIPEG — Describing her as a good mother who "momentarily lost it," a judge has given a Winnipeg woman who killed one of her infant triplets an 18-month conditional sentence.
The Manitoba judge went even further Wednesday, recommending that Michelle Camire's three other young children be quickly returned to her care.
Camire, 27, was found guilty of manslaughter earlier this year after a jury trial for the October 2004 death of her child.
Queen's Bench Justice Deborah McCawley described Camire as an otherwise loving, caring mother and rejected the Crown's request for a 30-month prison term, saying that would only undo all the positive steps Camire has taken since her arrest.
Prosecutor Brian Bell had urged the judge to make a "strong and firm response" to the fact Camire violated her position of trust by killing a vulnerable child.
Three-month-old Michael Helgason suffered a fractured skull and severe brain injury after being thrown into his bed by Camire. She has always claimed the death was a tragic accident, not a criminal act.
Her lawyer argued at trial that she acted like any other frustrated, sleep-deprived parent when she threw Michael down.
"Unless you've been in a similar circumstance . . . it may be difficult to appreciate what she was feeling," Rod Brecht said during closing arguments. "Throwing Michael into a padded bassinet was never meant to be an assault on him. Many loving and caring parents may throw their children into a crib."
McCawley said Camire will "never cross that line again" and is clearly remorseful for her actions. She noted Camire keeps an urn containing her dead son's ashes, along with numerous pictures of him, in her home to serve as a constant reminder of what she did.
Camire has no prior criminal record, and she does have steady employment and a long-term, stable relationship.
Brecht said his client wants to resume parenting.
McCawley threw her support behind that plan, saying, "family reunification should be proceeded with as expeditiously as possible."
The case against Camire has sparked vigorous local debate and saw two prior trials in 2007 and 2008 end with jurors unable to reach a unanimous verdict.
Bell told jurors there was no doubt Camire was guilty, pointing to Camire's frantic 911 call after finding her son wasn't breathing.
"My three-month-old baby, I've killed him. I was tired and frustrated earlier, and I slammed him down when I put him down . . . Oh my God, what has mommy done? I'm going to go to jail, aren't I?" she said in the recorded call.
The operator began instructing Camire on how to perform cardiopulmonary resuscitation. Camire wept, repeatedly asking how could she do such a thing to her baby. "He's gone, he's gone, I know he's gone," she said.
Camire also told police she knew what she did "was wrong" but couldn't stop herself in time.
Camire was receiving Child and Family Services respite help in her home for up to 57 hours a week. Staff was not present at the time of the incident. Camire was also raising a 17-month-old girl.
CFS first became involved with Camire and her family in June 2004 after a social worker at Winnipeg's St. Boniface General Hospital notified them about the impending birth of triplets.
Camire's sentence conditions include a nightly curfew of 8 p.m. to 7 a.m., abstaining from alcohol and attending all recommended programming and treatment. She has already taken courses for parenting and anger management, court was told.
Father of a child: Potential life in prison and loss of custody of all children
Mother of a child: 18 months slap on the wrist, nightly curfew and gets all remaining children back.
