Just get this bag and be done with it. I was just having a discussion like this with a new girl at my work today... the advantage to spending $400 on a fucking purse is that if someone steals it, you're OK because you have no money inside the purse.
Aren't nice bags usually around €1,500? I'm lost... I thought I knew a thing or two.
Then again, I have absolutely no problem with a woman buying a bag that costs that much. Men's toys are computers, TV's, home theatre, cars, bikes, boats and such. So a couple of hundred or thousand dollars for a bag is very reasonable.