Big date tonight...
- Thread starter tank girl
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A.B.Normal
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Big date this morning
Feb.11
Feb.11
ClaireBear
Banned
Yeah... now THATS a big date!
Inkara1
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How about these dates?
ClaireBear
Banned
Inkara1 said:
Delicious!
tank girl
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THE SAGA CONTINUES...
HE CALLED! left a message inviting me to go to the beach on my voicemail...
now whaddoIdooohoooo?????
My inclination is to play it cool - don't call back for an hour or so and then say that I've already got things planned (even though I don't) to make him think I'm not as keen as I really am?
Also...why should I make him think that (seeing as my sunday is already "planned") I would drop everything (I had "planned" - like washing me :hair and finishing my novel lol:
) to go out with him!
God forbid!
I have no clue how to do the date thing, I've never really done it seriously before. I had no idea there were so many tricky rules and things.
heelp?
HE CALLED! left a message inviting me to go to the beach on my voicemail... now whaddoIdooohoooo?????My inclination is to play it cool - don't call back for an hour or so and then say that I've already got things planned (even though I don't) to make him think I'm not as keen as I really am?
Also...why should I make him think that (seeing as my sunday is already "planned") I would drop everything (I had "planned" - like washing me :hair and finishing my novel lol:
) to go out with him!
God forbid!
I have no clue how to do the date thing, I've never really done it seriously before. I had no idea there were so many tricky rules and things.
heelp?
tank girl
New Member
Re: THE SAGA CONTINUES...
*ahem*
because according to "The rules" of dating - it is virtually a sin to let him think you are interested and just give in.
It makes you easier to pursue, an easy catch.
And for men, the fun is in the chase - the pursuit. Another biological/primal instinct I guess. I BET CB could tell us all about that
If I make things easy - he gets bored, he looses interest. I have to make myself appear to be not-so-avaliable and then there is more of an incentive to run through hoops of fire to get me.
ANd I wouldn't exactly call it lieing...I would rather consider it being 'coy'
Leslie said:
*ahem*
because according to "The rules" of dating - it is virtually a sin to let him think you are interested and just give in.
It makes you easier to pursue, an easy catch.
And for men, the fun is in the chase - the pursuit. Another biological/primal instinct I guess. I BET CB could tell us all about that
If I make things easy - he gets bored, he looses interest. I have to make myself appear to be not-so-avaliable and then there is more of an incentive to run through hoops of fire to get me.
ANd I wouldn't exactly call it lieing...I would rather consider it being 'coy'
tank girl
New Member
Re: THE SAGA CONTINUES...
Yes, I am. Lovesick.
Maybe. And its pretty gut wrenching considering every hour since I've been with him I've been thinking of him.
But if I want to make this work - I have to follow "the rules".
Apparently it really works
you've gotta let him do the chasing - It is as simple as that.
As my wise old gran of 76 said to me yesterday;
Leslie said:
Yes, I am. Lovesick.
Maybe. And its pretty gut wrenching considering every hour since I've been with him I've been thinking of him.
But if I want to make this work - I have to follow "the rules".
Apparently it really works
you've gotta let him do the chasing - It is as simple as that.
As my wise old gran of 76 said to me yesterday;
Re: THE SAGA CONTINUES...
Yeah, that happens. But you carry no guilt if you're always genuine.
Why make a man fall in love of a lie?, I remember an old sig of PrincessLissa or ash, that said it is better to be hated for who you are than loved for who you're not.
By playing these games you're only making him see you as his trophy, and he will lose interest once he thinks he got you.
tank girl said:Last time I did that - he broke my heart.
Yeah, that happens. But you carry no guilt if you're always genuine.
Why make a man fall in love of a lie?, I remember an old sig of PrincessLissa or ash, that said it is better to be hated for who you are than loved for who you're not.
By playing these games you're only making him see you as his trophy, and he will lose interest once he thinks he got you.