Well, you all have some interesting ideas on what chivalry is, or maybe what it means to you. Its good to see that people even consider it, therefore it isnt dead. I think everyone has lost sight of what it truly is, and has therefore lost sight of what true respect is.
Chivalry, has everything to do with your actions, but also with your beliefs. I dont consider myself to be a knight, nor would I fight to the death for anyone. I do however, believe that women should be treated with the utmost respect, and try to help them or better their lives in any way that I am capable of, even if it means discomfort or pain for me in any way. Chivalry, is all about priorities, putting those of your loved one before yourself. Someone who is chivalrous, is not selfish, and has no selfish beliefs.
No one can be true to the code, times have changed, but you can apply it to your everyday life. Try it sometime, think beyond yourself, and see how you can help others. You might even enjoy it...