never2muchRAM
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that may be somewhat true, but you can never let her realize she has that power. and you can definitely do a lot of different things to aid the decision making process, or maybe disrupt it would be a better description.chcr said:
i like to make a little game out of it and "see who can hold out longer." women always think they are going to win that one. yeah right. it makes from some GREAT foreplay which ALWAYS makes them end up giving in first. i think just the idea that the guy is willing to wait makes some women all hot and bothered. there is also the added angle that lots of really attractive women are used to having guys do anything to sleep with them, and here is this guy who they are interested in and who is interested in her in return, but he seems relatively disinterested in sleeping with her. that drives some women crazy, they cant stand it. they want to find out what's wrong, they want to prove they really are sexy and desirable. combine all those factors with fact that when you wait she gets to realize you are actually interested in her not just "it" so when it does happen, she will hold NOTHING back. first date, even second or third date sex doesn't even compare to making her wait a while sex.
WARNING:: sometimes this backfires, and you realize you cant stand this chick and you end up not seeing her anymore. then you realize you should've just had cheap sex with her when you had the chance. now you're only options are going through your #'s on your cell phone for a faithful old standby or go home to windows media player, lotion and a paper towel
. not as much fun, but less expensive, safer, and you dont have to cuddle afterward. im sorry, that's totally NOT how i really feel, but i thought it might be funny. i definitely am more of a relationship guy these days. but in my early 20's when i used to teach swing dancing at UCSB... watch out
god bless those college girls.
behold, another partypooping opportunity 
that one got me too
