I have been to a board where it happened. They decided they wanted to be "pg-13" and made an attempt to crack down on anyone that didn't toe the line.That has never happened. It's not happening here. In fact, I've been the most vocal (and often singular) proponent for absolute free speech in the RW. The only hardcore rule has been to attack the idea, not the person. Truthfully, I quit doing much more than scanning most threads in the last several months because of childish behavior & boring subject matter.
This is true. Some people seem to take it personally when you do not conform to their ideas. I'm not sure why, but this makes those people extremely upset.Ideas are not being bandied about. Criticisms of posters, the choice of material and sources have taken over ideological discussions. I get pissy because nobody seems willing to actually discuss an opinion. I get pissy because people hide behind the AUP (which has gone missing) & walk the edge instead of discussing the matter at hand. I've left because I've had enough.
I think it was Cerise that sent the complaint to Gonz and resulted in the events which sent Spike here.The post was edited as your link clearly shows. I was scolded and I have not repeated the faux pas. It was a personal comment given in a humorous, to me, roundabout way (Imagine a Sherlock Holmsian figure complete with pipe saying the above). Gonz killed the comment and posted exactly what is now posted there cautioning me against personal attacks.
Whether he came to the post by exploration or invitation I have no idea and don't particularly care. I won't do it again.
Now, to the public apology to Spike. I posted the comment publicly and I am apologizing likewise.
Spike, I am sorry if you were offended by my post and I will endeavor to avoid such conduct in the future. You have this way of getting under people's skin and they finally get nasty. I should not have done so and I was wrong to have allowed myself to make such a comment.
As far as I am concerned, Gonz could let you out right now and I would not be unhappy in the least. I like a good foil and you have been better than most.
This will be my only post at this thread.
See ya on the board.
j
Spike is in the KK for ignoring a warning about personal attacks and then rudely arguing about it.
He will remain in here until he decides to play by the rules.
did someone just quote thmeselves? tisk tisk
We could all try a little self moderating too.
Works to a point. There'll still be a need for Mods/Admins to clean up Spammers, move threads and other secretarial duties.... actual judgments on members should be rare..but the rarity depends on the level of self-moderation.We could all try a little self moderating too.
No one is perfect and I'll be the first to admit that I am far from perfect. It is very difficult to distinguish a friendly poke and an unfriendly jab.I do it all the time. (or try)
I'm not perfect though.
the way I am, the more personal you try to get, the more logic I try to apply.
I can usually tell when it's a
Dude, this is the second time today someone has referred me to this video. What gives? I thought the song was called Gonads And Strife.Self-moderating? Screw that, I'm outta control!!!!!!!!!
Weee!
No one is perfect and I'll be the first to admit that I am far from perfect. It is very difficult to distinguish a friendly poke and an unfriendly jab.
Cerise has been doing a little extra trolling lately. My strategy at the moment is to give her a few days without my responses and see if this brings her closer to being less inflammatory. We'll see if this strategy works (but I have little hope).
Oh, shit! Really?
I'm watching Cerise make accusations against me of personal attacks in the RW forum, though I haven't made any. She is either insane or just really bad at making shit up. I'm guessing she's trying to have me banished like Spike to the KK.
Can you go a little further in your analysis and provide some info to back up your claims other than resorting to your tattered collection of criticism and personal attacks on me?
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/points to Cerise's latest blatherings
I'm not sure if she's really that ignorant, or she's just pretending to be. It's hard to tell.
By the way I'm perfect.
Who? Cerise? You gonna hook up w/her? (Add another post where I mention Cerise' name. )Din I recall a pic of her from somewhere’s
the now defunk OTC photo album perhaps?
Wasn’t she this cute kinda Goth girl?
jab jab poke poke poke
Oh hells no dude... perfect? I'm not even close to perfect!!!! /ROFLMFAO!!!Nah Val I was referring to you, but turns out I musta been mistaken
(Ooops there goes that perfect thang down teh drain)
I had you mixed up with another female member of OTC.
As for Cerise
don't think my wife of 30 yrs would be signing off on that!