Poll How many Of you have Cheated?

[Rose]

:$ I could probably be guilty if we're talking emotional cheating and not just physical cheating.

 

[PT]

:$ I could probably be guilty if we're talking emotional cheating and not just physical cheating.

I know first hand, emotional is just as damaging. I would even venture to say that I would rather have my wife actually go out and screw a stranger just for the sex than I would for her to fall in love with someone else.

btw, that's the last I'll be in this thread. Thank you.

 

[chcr]

Nope.

 

[Kevin76]

Since threesomes are'nt really considered cheating when they involve your SI.. I can honestly say I've never cheated on anyone

 

[AlphaTroll]

Never have had the inclination to cheat on anyone. And I wouldn't tolerate anyone cheating on me, for any reason, ever - I'm rather unforgiving on that matter.

 

[Gonz]

Never have, never will. I take my oaths very seriously & I can hum Meatloaf songs very well.

 

[Luis G]

I have cheated twice in my whole life. I've never cheatd on my gf, and I'll never do it.

 

[Raven]

I did it once. But it took just one kiss from someone else to make me realise how I felt about the person I was cheating on. Feelings for said kisser promptly disappeared.

 

[tonksy]

i truly regret what happened. it was over three years ago. after i lost the baby, my husband and i were terrible to each other. we took out all our pain on each other, we seperated for a while. the guy i cheated with was a slug and he knew exactly what was going on in my life and weaseled right in. he was a good friend, i talked to him about everything. looking back now i see why that was so shitty of him, but i always blame myself. i guess, i still do. maybe i shouldn't have needed anyone to get over my problems. my husband feels bad for the way he acted, but he didn't cheat...i dunno why i'm even writing this...my husband and i have obviously worked past this, but i still have guilt. and pain....but, you have to learn from your mistakes... sometimes, i guess learning sucks...

 

[rrfield]

HOLY SHIT! My wife accuses me of the same thing. That is about the only console game she really likes.

to prove I dont cheat, I had to beat level 20. Talk about tedious.

rrfield

 

[SexyBoo]

Big hug tonks! I'm so sorry!
I'm glad that you and your husband were able to work through your problems. Some of us have our problems and just don't belong together - but it is still painful to accept and to get your partner to accept.

 

[MrBishop]

I'm a serial-monogamist...

no cheating. I don't consider cyber-nook cheating though. It's more like mutual excahnge of fantasies. It's where you apply them that counts.

If i get all hot and bothered over cybersex, and go straight to bed with my wife...am I more guilty than if I watched a XXXmovie or read some porn first?

It doesn't matter where I get my appetite, so long as I eat at home

 

[CydCharisse]

If i get all hot and bothered over cybersex, and go straight to bed with my wife...am I more guilty than if I watched a XXXmovie or read some porn first?

Very good point, I completely agree

 

[tonksy]

yupyup.

 

[BlurOfSerenity]

It doesn't matter where I get my appetite, so long as I eat at home

my bf said something similar once...
"just because you're on a diet doesnt mean you can't look at the food"
or something like that.
he was referring to the fact that he looks at other girls, but only wants me... and expects the same from me.

(and before any of you think that he's a pig for looking at other girls.... i look at other guys, so it's even -- and i want only him as well)

 

[tonksy]

it's called eye candy and everyone does it...or should.

 

[CydCharisse]

I admit that I look all the time and he catches me every single time. I don't mean any harm by it. I can't help but turn my head if I see an attractive guy

 

[tonksy]

dude, thats just human nature. its hardwired.

 

[Kevin76]

HUGS Tonks... I totally understand hun.. but the past is the past don't dwell on it.. work towards the future..

 

[freako104]

i did that myself but my ex always got jealous and mad.one reason im kinda glad to be a bachelor. i can look and touch and it wont hurtanyone( unless shes into that)