Study: Living together (before marriage) may lead to breakup

unclehobart said:
Geez... this study comes out every three months and gets touted like its amazing and spellbinding research. I agree with it in any case.
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I Hope tonks doesn't find this, unc... :eek2: :D
 
unclehobart said:
She wouldn't have if you didn't feel compelled to dig it up, sgt. ;)
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Me and my fiancee have been together for almost 6 years, and are showing no signs of a breakup. ;)
 
Gato_Solo said:
Me and my fiancee have been together for almost 6 years, and are showing no signs of a breakup. ;)
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The sun has been together for 6 billion years... and you know that sucka is gonna break up at some point.
 
unclehobart said:
To avoid divorce, one must merely never marry. You can be b/f g/f forever.
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Working on it... Six years together, four of them living together.

Gato Solo said:
Me and my fiancee have been together for almost 6 years, and are showing no signs of a breakup. ;)
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Haven't both of you been married and divorced already? Did you live with your first wife before you married? Or am I thinking of someone else... :eh:
 
Gato_Solo said:
Me and my fiancee have been together for almost 6 years, and are showing no signs of a breakup. ;)
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well, we've hit over a year and i'd say we are just as happy now as ever. how many of you all gave us that long?
 
PT said:
I'll second that.
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I'll third that.

Divorce does suck, and the study may or may not be right. In my case, it's right. we lived together for 71/2 years before we actually tied the knot, and 2.5 years later, we're getting divorced.
 
nalani said:
this is true .. but like marriage, when it's with the right person, it can be quite liberating ... and quite a blessing :D
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no offense to any former wives of mine....hi nat!

but this it true as well, I think we are both better off now.
 
paul_valaru said:
no offense to any former wives of mine....hi nat!

but this it true as well, I think we are both better off now.
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Wives? YOu been holding out on us, Pauly?!?
 
greenfreak said:
Haven't both of you been married and divorced already? Did you live with your first wife before you married? Or am I thinking of someone else... :eh:
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Yep. We've both been through the 'meatgrinder'. As to my first wife...we didn't live together first.
 
Winky said:
One of if not the most important decisions
is choosing a mate!
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Unfortunately, men do not really have a choice as to who we marry. Women do the choosing. All we can do is try to offer her the best choice. :devious:

100% of all western marriages are by choice of the female. All men can do is ask. ;)
 
It was she that pursued me from the start.

But after four years of being together
and having already buying a house together

yes, it was I that said:

“Let's get married”

Her response:

“You aren't serious!”

heh
 
Winky said:
It was she that pursued me from the start.

But after four years of being together
and having already buying a house together

yes, it was I that said:

“Let's get married”

Her response:

“You aren't serious!”

heh
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How many women did you pursue until you met the 'right one'? How many did you consider marrying before the wifey put you in the stranglehold of luv? How many told you 'no', in some form, or another?

So...in other words...she chose you. ;) Now...looking back...did you really have a choice of staying, or leaving?
 
unclehobart said:
To avoid divorce, one must merely never marry. You can be b/f g/f forever.
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Sound advice :D


Gato: Doesnt both people in a relationship have the right to leave if they feel it isnt working or whatever?
 
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