PuterTutor said:Then maybe he'll teach us to drive.
No, I'll be taking over that class this semester.
PuterTutor said:Then maybe he'll teach us to drive.
ClaireBear said:We do?
Did I miss a "straight person" memo or summit?
Cos when I marry it'll be a public declaration of the mutual love I have for my fiance...
Amazing what you learn about the way you're supposed to think and feel.. init?
Gonz said:Children, the only reason for marriage to exist, are not being served. Instead they are tokens on a board. Tokens that can be moved because , instead of teaching them to reach beyond themselves, we are educating them in self-righteous, self-serving, ugly selfishness.
kale said:commit to a monogamous relationship, helping to stop that terrible gay disease AIDs.
Yes, that would be ideal. I'm all for homosexual couples adopting older, hard to place children. Infants are best served in an intact, monogamous, married heterosexual home.kale said:adopt children and raise them in loving homes (instead of that dreadful Orphanarium)
ResearchMonkey said:Love, the emotion, is just one atribute of relationship. Can you think of more? If love is the simple standard, everyone should marry everyone or anything.
Gonz said:Why would maraige be needed for that? It doesn't stop the heterosexual crowd from extramarital affairs. Historically, homosexual men are the least monogamous group around.
Gonz said:Yes, that would be ideal. I'm all for homosexual couples adopting older, hard to place children. Infants are best served in an intact, monogamous, married heterosexual home.
damnit, I gotta go...ttfn
MrBishop said:Wow...another same-sex union thread-on-fire that slipped past my radar...what was I thinking?
I'm reading post 74 now...soon be ready to contribute. In the interim...for those using the biological evolution arguement, please keep in mind:
1) Evolution is not positive or negative...it is experimental. If something fails, it is often removed from the equation. If it succeeds, it is often kept...if it has little or no effect...it often remains. Fail/Succeed <---as it refers to the survival and/or propogation of the species which had such a evolutionary jump or hop. The appendix has not helped our species seek food better, survive longer, or mate more effectivly...yet it remains. Likewise, homosexuality does not allow certain individuals to mate more effectivly, but it's inclusion in our genetic code hasn't hurt our ability to find food or extend our lives nor has it hampered others from finding successful mates and reproduce.
2) Many are assuming that homosexuality is not an evolutionary trait because it is not passed on sexually (stalwart homosexual relations produce no children), but this assumption is based on the assumption that homosexuality is not a recessive trait. If we even consider the possibility that homosexuality could be a biological trait (albeit, never proven nor disproven), then it could very well be a part of our evolution. Perhaps not the most successful part, but there nonetheless. If such is the case...the homosexual trait could very well be passed on sexually.
Just wanted to clear up the way that 'evolution' is being bandied about.
freako104 said:if they refuse it that is their right. if they continue it then maybe it is not genetic. or not entirely genetic anyway
Gato_Solo said:Talking about assumptions...
If homosexuality is genetic, and homosexuality can be 'cured' by gene therapy, how would you treat homosexuals that refuse treatment, or continue their lifestyle after this hypothetical treatment? (just another log for the fire )
I have no clue as to why we'd want to be a part of it. I certainly don't. At least not how it's described today.
Several members contacted me and asked that I return to the boards for different reasons. Some wanted an explanation as to why I left while others wanted me to champion a few causes.
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I make the mistake of thinking that I'm alone in trying to fight this fight. It's the Gay Superhero Extraordinaire in me. If it weren't for people like you guys I wouldn't have come back.
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For what it's worth, I was not brought in here to "bring you down". Don't flatter yourself. Though it concerns me that you think that anyone here would go to such lengths to get rid of you...
I know that I've covered this before, but Kale brought it up, and quite frankly it really burns me that anyone would have the balls to say that homosexuals don't see marriage the same way as hetero's do...
For someone who ended a post stating that I brought no facts to the table but only attempted to make emotions sound like logical arguments, where is your basis for this? Do some Research Monkey and bring me some facts that prove your completely asinine opinion holds a single shred of truth.
Well I suppose if wanting better health coverage (i.e. sharing your partners benefits gives you better coverage) is greedy, then yes, we're greedy. Out of curiosity, how many hetero couples reading this thread share medical benefits with a spouse? Which one of you had the better health care when you got married and how long did it take the other one to get on that policy once you got hitched?
Marriage always has been defined by the states.
Marriage means family. Not sexual reproduction. Marriage means love, commitment, honesty, understanding, trust... If a family is nothing more than a man, a women, 2.5 kids and a dog then our society is truly fucked. A family should consist of a group of people living together that provide love and stability for each other, not a means for producing children. Any whore on the street can pop out kids, it takes a family to raise them.
So why can't that family consist of two men or two women living together raising children that they have either conceived by taking on a sperm donor or surrogate mother, or by adopting the thousands of children who's natural parents can't or won't take care of them. And if you can look at that situation and say, "Hey, that's a family."
. . . you will never convince me that the sole role of marriage is to produce children. Marriage is a commitment to family, and families come in all types, not just those that include genetic copies of the adults. If you can't see past this, then there is no debate, there is no conversation.
with the difference that they don't try to pass off homosexuality as some sort of freakish disease destined to destroy the world
This is your basis for not giving it a chance now? A lot has happened since the days when Romans fed christians to lions, Catholics burned heretics at the stake and Hitler rounded up homosexuals as one of the first groups to be put in concentration death camps.
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And just to draw a parallel here... the back of the bus gets to the station at the same time the front of the bus does, and the water coming out of the coloreds only fountain tastes just the same as the one coming out of the white's only fountain not two feet from it, and if these people had settled for this "same, but not quite the same" treatment, think of where we'd be today.
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I have made no attempt to make myself out to be a victim. I am not a victim.
All this time I was asking GAY people how they felt about marriage. Silly me... I shoulda come to you right from the beginning. I bow down to your superior insight into the diseased mind that is the homosexual psyche. I mean it's obvious that we would have no idea of what family values are or the desire to want to reproduce them in families of our own. I mean, what could hell spawn demons possessed with the desire for same sex relationships know about family values? Once again I am in awe of your insight.
but instead raise that bar, only you guys are too scared to let us try. Why? Because what in the world would happen if we showed you up? Talk about embarrassing...
only gay people aren't so stuck up on themselves
ResearchMonkey said:
[*]Let’s discuss what happened in Scandinavia from the late 80’s to present day and look at the trends that are a result of gay marriage.
[*]Lets look at the extremely hi-rate of disease and morbidity that is caused by homosexual acts and the rate of infections.
[*]Let’s discuss the far higher rate of chronic mental illness in homosexuals
[*]Let discuss the promiscuity rates of the two lifestyles.
[*]Let also mention HIV, which was touted for ten years as not being a homosexual disease which it later was shown to be. Did you know, I am sure you do, that AIDS has its own special laws as to medical privacy that no other conditions has? That is has been the best funded medical research that has ever been attempted. Special rights, exuberant funding, that’s one hell-of’a lobby you got there.
[*]Lets talk about pheromones; what they are, what the do, and how they do it.
[*]Let’s talk about the natural occurrence of gay relationships the instinctive animal world
and how that represents the parallel to the cognitive behavior in the human world.
kale said:Guess a switch got mixed up or something, damn genes...
RM said:Lets look at the extremely hi-rate of disease and morbidity that is caused by homosexual acts and the rate of infections.