Hmm... well, there were never any fights in over a year, hardly any argument that lasted over 30 seconds. It was almost too good. In fact, even after the breakup, she's made it clear that she couldn't imagine anyone being any better to her, or anyone she'd be more attracted to. She describes me as her "perfect" man. ?(
L. Summerton, I do think maybe she's just not ready for a serious commitment. I'm a couple of years older, and she's heading back to graduate school. She's probably thinking about what happens when she graduates... can she find a job near me, or me near her? I can completely understand that, and like I said, I'm in no rush. Still, I don't want to lose someone I care about just because she's a bit confused. All I know to do is give her the space she apparently needs, and see what happens. I've always been of the opinion that I shouldn't think so much about the future that I spoil the moment... why do women have to overanalyze everything?