"R all women really, "Back-Stabbin' Bitches"?"
Well here's a long tale of woe from a newbie on this board.
I had a very close female friend for about 7 years. She dated several of my friends but before that had asked me out. I never really found myself attracted to her so gently turned her down. Eventually she got engaged to one of my friends and moved away from the city that I lived in.
She finished doing a university course and got herself a job back in Aberdeen. We had remained friends even though she had moved away and started going out with our mutual friends and it was just the same as before she had moved away. But one night after one too many GoldSchlagers (I'm Scottish therefore being an alcoholic is in my blood so to speak
) she turns to me and says "One day, I'm going to kiss you" and I replied "ok" and we kissed. We sorta both pretended that this never happened for a while and I had never realised how much I was attracted to her. I guess it wasn't a straight off physical attraction but something more complete if you know what I mean.
After a while she informed me that she was breaking up with her fiance and that she wanted to be with me. I tried to reason with her that we should wait until she was not engaged anymore but things between us continued anyway. One weekend a few months down the line her ex-fiance came to Aberdeen and visited her and some of our other friends, and at one point he came out of her bedroom without his shirt on and I lost the rag and stormed off. I spoke to her on the phone the next day and basically she said nothing was going on between them but my lack of trust in her had done some damage to our relationship. I then had to go abroad for work. When I came back one of my friends took me out to her place as she was having a house warming party (in the apartment I helped decorate) and when she greeted me at the door she said "Don't be upset" and later on in the evening she disappeared off to her bedroom with some other guy she had started seeing either while we were together or after I was out of the country. So after 7 years of close friendship and a promise of "Whatever happens I don't want to lose you as a friend" all I hear from her now is the occasional SMS saying "Heard that song we used to dance to, How are you?" and nothing else.
So I guess that gives you all an idea of what my answer to the question is! But I sincerely hope that I am wrong. I just seem to attract the back stabbing bitches all the time
I do have some platonic friendships with women and I do think it is possible, but if you find you platonic female friend attactive the thought of sex will be in your mind.
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