Casual sex

What is your take on casual sex?

  • Do it! Get laid whenever you can.

    Votes: 25 89.3%

  • Against it. Save it for someone special you will marry.

    Votes: 1 3.6%

  • No to sex for fun, but I have no problem with premartial sex if both are committed.

    Votes: 2 7.1%
  • Total voters
    28
Regrets about getting married, or regrets about having sex before getting married?

None either way for me.
 
Regrets over doing things before married. Ah well, I guess I'm just not that type of guy. :) Sorry to bring shame on the male species... *sigh* :)
 
LastLegionary said:
I turned two girls down a couple of weeks ago that were desperate enough to offer to go both at once with me. :D

Sorry to bring shame on the male species... *sigh*
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That's just wrong, man. :crying4:
 
there's no shame in it lastlegionary, i know quite a few people who don't believe in sex before marriage. you should be proud of your decision and the woman that is fortunate enough to be your partner for life i am certain will respect it.

:)
 
Puter: I've only had one offer, it isn't like happening constantly like with the singles. (no I don't mean to brag, but this is why I asked the question... I never get to ask girls out, they always ask me first. :( And I feel uncomfortable dating so many different girls while I already have a girlfriend.)

ris: Thank you.
 
Luis G said:
LL, do you expect your future wife to be a virgin as well?
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It would be a bonus, but in these days I would say no I don't. I'm pretty sure my girl friend is still one though.
 
Yeah, in these days they're aren't a lot of people who share the same opinion as you do, LL. It wouldn't be realistic to expect it from a girl, but it would most certainly add something to your relationship :)
 
Perhaps...but to me that first night would be special, no matter whether she's still virgin or not :)

But yeah, it would give something extra to it, although I would never blame a girl for not still being virgin :)
 
so what's the big deal about saving it until you are married?
i bet you are not saving your "kisses" until you're married.
 
Luis G said:
so what's the big deal about saving it until you are married?
i bet you are not saving your "kisses" until you're married.
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No we kiss quite well thank you, and I would kiss most people. I don't consider that sexual.

Big deal about saving? Hm... It means much to me.
 
I'm personally not talking about marriage. I'm talking about meeting the right person.
I want to have the idea that that person is going to be the person I want to share the rest of my life with. Maybe kinda old-fashioned, but that's how I see it.

Marriage is just something that emphasizes the love you already had....
 
i meant kissing in the mouth, french kiss, etc etc.....

i know it means so much to you, clearly it doesn't mean much to me, but i'm curious about why it is so important to you.
 
I've had a couple virgins, and I'd have to say, I'll take the more experienced woman any day. :headbang: :headbang: :headbang: :headbang:
 
Hm I do french kiss my girl if you mean, but thats entering dangerous grounds since it is so incredibly hard to stop once you start going. I would passionately kiss other girls, but not the french way.

Why does it mean so much to me? Hm, I don't know really, but I hate the idea of just sleeping around for fun. Its just physical pleasure. Nothing more! Without the emotional and psychological bond, sex is empty in my opinion. I'd much rather take my girl skydiving then. You get a different kind of rush, and there is nothing (I hear) like your girl grabbing you and squeezing you so tight you can't breathe will falling at 150 miles per hour to the ground :) And its not just skydiving. I will take her whiterafting, racing, etc. I guess I get my "fix" from a different source than sex :)

My idea is to have sex with only one partner ever. I guess I can go before marriage, but there is always the chance of breaking off. Yes that possibility exists after marriage, but, well, marriage is different. I know you guys probably think me as stupid for turning so many girls down (that offered themselves JUST for sex, and my friends don't get that, hell I don't even know WHY they come to me all the time), and for turning that duo down, but I have no freaking desire for more than one girl.
 
Correction: Of course I would enjoy more than one girl, and of course I want to accept all the offers I have, but, well, I'd never forgive myself.
 
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