Nalani, you're beautiful, inside and out. No worries, dear.
(I would have come to your aid sooner but I was away for work all week)
I'm not a girly-girl but I clean up nice.
I prefer jeans to dresses, sneakers to heels... But I'm gaining more interest in my wardrobe as I lose more weight.
I got hit on by a woman in a bar once, I took it as a compliment. I didn't know she was hitting on me at first because we were playing pool together but I figured it out after the game was over and she asked me for my number.
Of course, I was in a gay bar at the time, so it's bound to happen. My lesbian friends Gayle and Kim were with me and Kim wound up getting her number so it all worked out!