greenfreak
New Member
Ladies, are you a "helpless woman"? I've disliked that idea for a long time, that I need to be taken care of by a man. What does that term mean to you and what would a "helpless woman" be like?
I have to be able to lift at least 60-70 pounds without strain at work as part of my job. It was a little difficult at first but now I don't have much of a problem with it. (and have some nice biceps to boot )
But when I'm carrying a box or putting things on a hand truck, invariably, one of my male coworkers asks me if I need help. I don't consider that an insult and I'm not nasty about it, I just say, "No thank you, I've got it." But my male coworker John never gets those offers. I don't project an image that I need help but I think it's ingrained in some people to offer help to a woman. What do you think?
I have to be able to lift at least 60-70 pounds without strain at work as part of my job. It was a little difficult at first but now I don't have much of a problem with it. (and have some nice biceps to boot )
But when I'm carrying a box or putting things on a hand truck, invariably, one of my male coworkers asks me if I need help. I don't consider that an insult and I'm not nasty about it, I just say, "No thank you, I've got it." But my male coworker John never gets those offers. I don't project an image that I need help but I think it's ingrained in some people to offer help to a woman. What do you think?