The poinsetta thread
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Inkara1
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Sorry about not coming on MSN. I was uber-tired and headed to bed early, so I didn't think it would be a good idea to come on for a long conversation.
Oh, a FYI: on MSN, if I'm not on it, or if I'm on invisible, any messages you send don't get to me until I come off invisible or otherwise log in... at which point I get all 20 all at once.
Oh, a FYI: on MSN, if I'm not on it, or if I'm on invisible, any messages you send don't get to me until I come off invisible or otherwise log in... at which point I get all 20 all at once.
A.B.Normal
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Inkara1 said:
Inky has a cyberstalker ,Inky has a cyberstalker!!!
tonksy
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That's a bunch of BS, too.
Al, when you find yourself in the lucky situation of being able to perform oral sex on a woman, slowly begin to work your way around the area. Be attentive to reaction. When you find a locale that seems to spark a reaction stay there until it subsides, then move on.
Women are not chalkboards and don't feel the need for the alphabet to be written on their genitals.
Women are also individuals and places that one may like others do not.
You'll want to experiment with force and intensity too. Start slow and soft and if you get the impression that she wants things sped up or more force applied then comply forthwith. Women tend to do this by squeezing or pushing into you. They will scoot away when too much pressure in applied or an uncomfy area is hit.
And for God's sake! Please understand that continual direct contact with the clitoris is usually not recommended. It gets sore. There are nerve endings all over the place down there and we like a bit of variety.
If you are feeling brave and she is into it - never underestimate the titillating power of the tossed salad. Enough said.
Al, when you find yourself in the lucky situation of being able to perform oral sex on a woman, slowly begin to work your way around the area. Be attentive to reaction. When you find a locale that seems to spark a reaction stay there until it subsides, then move on.
Women are not chalkboards and don't feel the need for the alphabet to be written on their genitals.
Women are also individuals and places that one may like others do not.
You'll want to experiment with force and intensity too. Start slow and soft and if you get the impression that she wants things sped up or more force applied then comply forthwith. Women tend to do this by squeezing or pushing into you. They will scoot away when too much pressure in applied or an uncomfy area is hit.
And for God's sake! Please understand that continual direct contact with the clitoris is usually not recommended. It gets sore. There are nerve endings all over the place down there and we like a bit of variety.
If you are feeling brave and she is into it - never underestimate the titillating power of the tossed salad. Enough said.
Professur
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I said I wouldn't give advice on wimmen .... but if the conversation's muffdiving .....
Ok, pay attention. There are certain rules ...
First, Tonks is right about the density of the clit. Work it too hard, and she'll either not enjoy it ... or loose sensation all together. This pretty much equates to a really lousy weekend for both of you. But she's also wrong. Sometimes, a little banging on the doorbell is what it takes to get the door open. And (do I really want to bring this much trouble on myself?) ...
Yeah, go ahead, call the lynch mob. But it's true. I'd say about half the time, the first time I went down on a girl, she'd reach a point and start pushing me away, thinking she was done. She'd reached a plateau (remember that word) and gone 'sensitive'. Contrary to good manners, I foraged on ... and shortly after that, she'd find a whole new plateau that she didn't know existed. And then we usually had to vacate the park because the neighbours would be dialing 911 thinking someone was getting murdered.
The key was to maintain contact once she'd hit that 'sensitivity' without overdoing it. Super-gentle. Action around the clit, with only grazing contact. Tonguing the entire length of the slit, perinium, sometimes even the asshole, ending with a flick at the clit on the way past. Kissing/nibbling that super-sensitive bit at the top of the inner thigh while brushing the entire mound with the cheek (yeah, there's a reason I wear a beard, and it's not entirely laziness). I've met wimmen with as many as 5 plateaus. And I've spent as much as 4 hours finding them. Just don't kill yourself (or her) in the process. Start gentle. Backrubs (ask Bish. He's witnessed it). Hand rubs (no, I'm not kidding. Try it). Kissing the back of the neck, and nuzzling behind the ears. Breasts (not a mad rush to the nipple. Take ... say 10 minutes working your way in) Foot rubs, legs, those oh so ticklish thighs .... The entire female form is just one great big erogenous zone waiting for the right touch.
Touch ... Jeez, yeah ... the right speed. The exact right amount of pressure. A hair too heavy and you can blow hours work. Too light and it'll only tickle.
Man, ... I take it back. She will tell you what works. But don't expect it to come from her mouth. You gotta pay attention to her movements ... the subtle twitch of a muscle under the skin. A shorter breath. A skipped heartbeat. (total loss of bladder control? Certainly a possibility).
Enough. I could spend the next three weeks typing and only succeed in wasting Sam's bandwidth. You simply have to PAY ATTENTION. Really, really, really pay attention.
Ok, pay attention. There are certain rules ...
First, Tonks is right about the density of the clit. Work it too hard, and she'll either not enjoy it ... or loose sensation all together. This pretty much equates to a really lousy weekend for both of you. But she's also wrong. Sometimes, a little banging on the doorbell is what it takes to get the door open. And (do I really want to bring this much trouble on myself?) ...
Yeah, go ahead, call the lynch mob. But it's true. I'd say about half the time, the first time I went down on a girl, she'd reach a point and start pushing me away, thinking she was done. She'd reached a plateau (remember that word) and gone 'sensitive'. Contrary to good manners, I foraged on ... and shortly after that, she'd find a whole new plateau that she didn't know existed. And then we usually had to vacate the park because the neighbours would be dialing 911 thinking someone was getting murdered.
The key was to maintain contact once she'd hit that 'sensitivity' without overdoing it. Super-gentle. Action around the clit, with only grazing contact. Tonguing the entire length of the slit, perinium, sometimes even the asshole, ending with a flick at the clit on the way past. Kissing/nibbling that super-sensitive bit at the top of the inner thigh while brushing the entire mound with the cheek (yeah, there's a reason I wear a beard, and it's not entirely laziness). I've met wimmen with as many as 5 plateaus. And I've spent as much as 4 hours finding them. Just don't kill yourself (or her) in the process. Start gentle. Backrubs (ask Bish. He's witnessed it). Hand rubs (no, I'm not kidding. Try it). Kissing the back of the neck, and nuzzling behind the ears. Breasts (not a mad rush to the nipple. Take ... say 10 minutes working your way in) Foot rubs, legs, those oh so ticklish thighs .... The entire female form is just one great big erogenous zone waiting for the right touch.
Touch ... Jeez, yeah ... the right speed. The exact right amount of pressure. A hair too heavy and you can blow hours work. Too light and it'll only tickle.
Man, ... I take it back. She will tell you what works. But don't expect it to come from her mouth. You gotta pay attention to her movements ... the subtle twitch of a muscle under the skin. A shorter breath. A skipped heartbeat. (total loss of bladder control? Certainly a possibility).
Enough. I could spend the next three weeks typing and only succeed in wasting Sam's bandwidth. You simply have to PAY ATTENTION. Really, really, really pay attention.
I never said not to "bang on the doorbell", just know when to let up and move on the other areas.
