This is an old poll. I checked the date on it, and I actually did end up doing it about a month and a half later.
Tomorrow will be a good day to do it, since it will be the weekend, and we have a lot more time to hang out on the weekends.
And, if I get really nervous, I'll just cop out and do it with a text message.
I, personally, would feel gipped if asked out via a text message and most letters.
"The Letter" is cute IF YOU HAND IT TO HER PERSONALLY.
I wouldn't blame you. What kind of a pussy won't ask a woman out face to face? Grow a f@ckin' pair, huh?
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Oh yeah, "the letter", must be handed to her and she must read it in your presence. I'd forgotten to state that all important point!
The real beauty of a letter, or any written communication for that matter, is that you can craft what you want to say to perfection, and in great detail, before anyone reads it. Once done, they can't stop you, distract, you, argue with you, or otherwise wreck your train of thought as they can when speaking. Rather they are forced to hear exactly what you wanted to say without being able to effect it with their input, or dismiss it before you are done. The added bonus is that they can go back to it later, time and time again, and still get the exact, same perfectly crafted piece of communication, exactly as you in tended to say, until they understand every nuance of the point you are trying to convey.
I'm a wimp.
The down side, naturally, being that ... if you make an ass of yourself anyways ... they have proof ... and they'll keep it forever just to rub your nose in it.
Never happened, as I said it always worked. When it comes to "the letter", I am "the master".
I try to be like "Hey I'm going to ask her" but when I actually try to, I just get really really scared.
a wise man once told me if you ask ten women "do you want to fuck", nine of them may slap you but it's all worth it when the tenth one says yes
haha that is quite a good mindset to have.