Run Aways
- Thread starter Nekhebet
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catocom
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Nekhebet said:
You certainly are.
I think most people get confused around that age.
This is the time you really need to start applying logic to your
equations.
Life is just a series of decisions. They define who you are, and who
you may be. There are hard decision, and easy ones.
To learn how to make decisions, start small. Think about every
"little" thing you do during a day, and make an option out of it.
Step back when you have to make a decision and think about it....
"will doing it this way benefit me" "yes, no, now, or later"?
freako104
Well-Known Member
Leslie said:what exactly is wrong with this exactly?
stopping you from associating with an obvious loser?
It seems to be what any sane parent would do in this situation
Like Tonksy said love, she is rebelling. She is 14. She is young and confused.
Nek its for the best you keep away from these dickheads. I hope you find a good guy one day. and like the others especially Kittie have said: grow up a little. enjoy being a kid but dont be so damn reckless.
Running away. Hell. I think about it every day. I think on the way to work that I"ll just run away and not have to deal with it.
Sadly, life, real life, doesn't work like that. Leslie's already provided a grand example, so I won't expand.
My mom wanted to run away when she was younger once. I suppose all kids go through it. Her mom sat her down and said, "oh, you want to run away? Well, we can't have you going anywhere on an empty stomach."
I believe nona (mom's mom) helped her pack her little bag and then sat her down at the table and made lunch for her.
After lunch mom decided it was rather nice being at home and didn't run away after all.
Sadly, life, real life, doesn't work like that. Leslie's already provided a grand example, so I won't expand.
My mom wanted to run away when she was younger once. I suppose all kids go through it. Her mom sat her down and said, "oh, you want to run away? Well, we can't have you going anywhere on an empty stomach."
I believe nona (mom's mom) helped her pack her little bag and then sat her down at the table and made lunch for her.
After lunch mom decided it was rather nice being at home and didn't run away after all.
Ms Ann Thrope
New Member
self-assessment is never pleasant if you're honest with yourself, Nekhebet, no matter what age you are
try and see this as an opportunity to learn something about yourself, and your patterns of behaviour.... then take that information and use it to move forward
try and see this as an opportunity to learn something about yourself, and your patterns of behaviour.... then take that information and use it to move forward
Professur
Well-Known Member
Nek, my dear, considering that you have no idea what I have to do in a day, mind your manners. Personally, I should think you'd be grateful to have the chance to see any shrinks, counslors or deputies, considering that your badly planned attempt at adulthood could easily have seen you dead.
You did something stupid. Own up to it, and deal with the consequences. Appreciate that people are trying to give you a second chance, and to help you.
What you did was not cool. It was not adult. It wasn't even rebellious. It was a temper tantrum. You may as well have thrown yourself to the floor and kicked your heels. But that hasn't sunk in yet, has it. You still think you're smarter than everyone else. You didn't post this here to hear other peoples opinions. You did it to brag.
I'm not impressed.
You did something stupid. Own up to it, and deal with the consequences. Appreciate that people are trying to give you a second chance, and to help you.
What you did was not cool. It was not adult. It wasn't even rebellious. It was a temper tantrum. You may as well have thrown yourself to the floor and kicked your heels. But that hasn't sunk in yet, has it. You still think you're smarter than everyone else. You didn't post this here to hear other peoples opinions. You did it to brag.
I'm not impressed.
Nekhebet said:
You think that's not fun? Wait until ten years time when yer living in a trailer......six screaming kids demanding your attention and your counting down the days towards your husbands parole meeting
Because that's where yer headed if ya don't start using your brain
(oh, and I wouldn't worry too much about the parents/teachers/counsellors that seem such a hassle at the moment, as soon as you reach 18 they'll wash their hands of you.....and probably be glad they did).