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Well, the alternative to ending it if miserable would perhaps be.. getting help? Sure, some people might be a pain to be around because of their depressed state etc, and they might not want to live anymore. But to say they are welcome to off themselvs makes me a bit queasy.
When it comes to those who leave family-members behind, not having given any indications there was a problem - I fully understand the sentiment that it is cowardly and dispicable. But then, people who do this can hardly be considered sane at the moment the suicide took place, and thus I would find it hard to judge.