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Mare
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NOPE-its a rule of thumb-always better to chat nekked when ur itching -chat chat chat-blah blah blah-just confused-upset-to much on the brain, thinking of drinking, ya know. Baby in bed I was thinking of trying to lay down while he is and just hide under the covers for awhile....bleach said:Chat away Mare
Erm, do I have to be naked and handcuffed......or is that just in the shoutbox?
Ms Ann Thrope
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Some advice someone once gave me that helped me a great deal when I was in a very bad, very toxic place:
Count to ten. Now consider that those ten seconds are gone forever and can never come back. The pain that you felt then has gone with them, and can never hurt you again.
Stay strong, Mare. You can do it!
Count to ten. Now consider that those ten seconds are gone forever and can never come back. The pain that you felt then has gone with them, and can never hurt you again.
Stay strong, Mare. You can do it!
Mare
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Thnx Hon-I'll be ok-just need to lay down all the crying has my head hurting-who wants to drink with a headache right-we all know it makes it worse.freako104 said:hope youll be allright. were all here to talk either onlone or IRL if phone# hsa been posted in our profile. we lubb joo
freako104
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Squiggy said:After getting home and reading this thread, I've spent most of the last hour trying to get in touch with her...Finally got through. Shes OK. And didn't fall.
Hang tuff Mare.
thats a relief. thanks for the update squiggs.
mare. keep it goin mare were alll here for you
pretty much sums it up 
Mare
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freako104 said:
Thnx freako-I know its wasn't the fact of hiding any bottles-JUST wanted to-thought i could, and just have 1-2-3, RIGHHHHTTTTT!!!!!
Woke up in the middle of the night and payed BIG TIME for it and all day yesterday.
I think in my head, i'm going to get rid of my probs for awhile and , I made up 101 excuses Friday why It was ok for me to. Yes, I was weak and gave in. I even made it my last pit stop after doing some errands and sat in the car like-"Do you really want this". Even felt weird going in buying it-like I was minor or something-pretty bad when the owner of the store says, Where have YOU been?
My reply-I WAS trying to stop drinking.
His reply- Nothing of course , he wants his $$$$
Today a new day..all I can say-but my belly pretty much SPOKE to me and answered "ALL" my questions yesterday. Either deal with it on your own-or im gonna deal with for you.
Silver lady
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Having had friends that have done simular to you, I can apreciate the hassles that can overwhelm you. You need to get out when the urge hits and change the scenery, go for a walk, talk to a friend, anything but don't sit and dwell on things, Life has it's ups and downs and there are going to be days when life sucks, but prepare for them, have a buddy that is always there for you, (sounds like you have someone who fits that description well!) and don't be afraid to let them see you warts and all, as if they are going to help you, they need to know where the help is needed. Just take it a day at a time. Thats all you can do, and don't throw in the towel over slip ups just dust your self down and start all over again. As has been said there are enough of us here to see you through if you need to get things off you're chest.